I love to give advice, but in the case of the most recent question is one I’m worried I can’t respond fast enough. As everyone knows, I’m not a licensed therapist. But I have been in a dating situation, as many of us have, that was very detrimental not only to my mental health, but physical well being too.
So this email struck very close to home:
“Hello miss attitude. Im in a situation where I have been dating this guy for about a year and a half. In the beginning there were alot of rumors about him being a cheater and such but I didnt listen. Later on I believe he did but he denies all of it even though it was clearly on his fb page. I dont trust him and he asks for alotttt. I wanna leave but he goes off everytime I wanna leave. He always says I wont find anyone better but truth is I know I can. Should I leave for good this time?”
Girl, get out! Run, don’t walk. As I speak from personal experience, this is not a healthy relationship. If you don’t trust him, then there’s probably a very good reason. There is no doubt you can do better. And the fact that he says you won’t be able to is him playing mind games. I if you re-read your email, you have your own answer (even without my advice,) it is time to leave. And for good!