I love to give advice, but in the case of the most recent question is one I’m worried I can’t respond fast enough. As everyone knows, I’m not a licensed therapist. But I have been in a dating situation, as many of us have, that was very detrimental not only to my mental health, but physical well being too.
So this email struck very close to home:
“Hello miss attitude. Im in a situation where I have been dating this guy for about a year and a half. In the beginning there were alot of rumors about him being a cheater and such but I didnt listen. Later on I believe he did but he denies all of it even though it was clearly on his fb page. I dont trust him and he asks for alotttt. I wanna leave but he goes off everytime I wanna leave. He always says I wont find anyone better but truth is I know I can. Should I leave for good this time?”
Girl, get out! Run, don’t walk. As I speak from personal experience, this is not a healthy relationship. If you don’t trust him, then there’s probably a very good reason. There is no doubt you can do better. And the fact that he says you won’t be able to is him playing mind games. I if you re-read your email, you have your own answer (even without my advice,) it is time to leave. And for good!
Stylishly yours,
Miss Attitude
Tags: advice, cheating, dating, Facebook cheating, miss attitude, relationships
Great advise Miss Attitude! I couldn’t agree more. You will never meet a man who deserves your love and trust if you are in a relationship with someone who doesn’t.
Great advice Miss Attitude!!!! RUN HONEY RUN and don’t look back. And actually
he is the one that will not find better, to put up with all his crap.
I would run like hell from such a nightmare. I can stay with someone if I don`t trust him and you have already stayed for a year or more. I would go on a cruise to nowhere or something to clear my thoughts and I would leave him without any regret. You can always do better, trust me! It`s all up to you.